Donkey Hôte

As I’ve mentioned before, we have the most beautiful sunrises and sunsets here at Livin’ The 10.

The other morning, I went for a short walk around one of the front paddocks, and along came Mocha and Chip, sauntering down the path from their barn over to the water. I snapped a quick picture of them in the frosty grass – right before they started harassing me for something to eat. They are nothing if not persistent!

All of the pictures in this post are sunrises.

Don’t have much commentary.

Just enjoy the sunrise photos.

Planning Tools

We like to be ready for unhappy circumstances before they happen. Being prepared for them makes them less traumatic, and makes it easier to get through them. We talked briefly about some of the things we’ve done to be prepared in the post about Livin’ The 9.5, where our water main burst.

One of the tools we use to help in prioritizing our preparations is a simple “What would it take” type exercise. For example, “What would it take…to have enough water if the water went out for…a day, a week, a month.” Answering those questions helps us find things we can do to position ourselves to be less dependent upon outside resources. Here’s a sample of one of our planning worksheets.

Scenario: Water Outage

Duration One Day One Week One Month
 Needs ~5 gallons drinking water

Animals should be OK – as long as reservoirs are kept 3/4 full

 ~35 gallons drinking water

~100 gallons for animals

~50 gallons for bathing

~20 gallons for dishes

 ~1000+ gallons drinking water

~400+ gallons for cleaning

Filtering system to reuse water for plants, etc.

 Preparations Store 10 gallons drinking water Store 200 gallons drinking water

Store 100 gallons for bathing, dishes, etc.

Berkey water filter

~1500 gallon water storage tanks

Rain catchment system

Pool

Water well, solar/air/hand pumps

Your numbers may be vastly different from ours. In fact, our numbers may (will) be vastly different as things change on our homestead. The point isn’t to get it perfect. Rather, the point is to take a stab at it. Even if you get it wrong, you’re still better prepared than you were before you even tried. Just make sure that the scenario you’re planning for is realistic. In other words, don’t plan for the Zombie Apocalypse. At least, don’t plan for the Zombie Apocalypse before you plan for a burst water pipe.

From the above table, we can put together a rough plan of action.

Phase I – Stupidly Simple

These are the things that, when you stop and think about it, are so obvious, that you could kick yourself for not doing it earlier.

  • Next time you’re at the grocery store, pick up 10 gallons of the $.60/gallon drinking water.
Phase II – Relatively Easy

These are the things that aren’t difficult, but may take some planning to do. For example, rather than go out and buy 300 gallons of water, we’re going to buy 10 gallons each time we go to the grocery store. Yes, it will take seven months to build up a stockpile, but in seven months, we can be better off than we are now…or not.

  • Add 10 gallons of drinking water to the grocery list for the next 30 weeks.
Phase III – A Little Effort

These are the things that are going to take a bit of time or money to do. As such, we’re going to have to plan for those more so than some of the others. For us, the Berkey falls into this category. And to make it easy, we’re going to spread the ~$300 cost into easy-to-do $20 chunks. Yes, it’s going to take three to four months to get there. But in three to four months, we can be better off than we are now…or not.

  • Save $20/week for 15 weeks to buy a Berkey (~$300).
Phase IV – Longer Term Planning

These are the things that are going to be significant investments of time or money – or both. We may need to finance some of these things. Alternatively, if we’re going to pay cash, it’s going to take a while to save it. For us, the water catchment, water storage, and water well all fall into these categories.

  • Research water catchment and natural filtration systems.
  • Research ponds as an alternative or supplement to water storage tanks.
  • Research pools and function stacking: entertainment, cooling in the summer, water storage in emergencies…
  • Research water well and pump costs.
Phase V – Git ‘er done

This is the “go do it” part of Phase IV. Don’t get stuck in never-ending analysis. At some point, you need to take action. For us, we’re still working through some of the Phase IV stuff, and here’s what our plan looks like so far.

Pool

We’ve decided that we’re going to put in an above-ground pool this spring. It will help with cooling-off in the summer months, and it will be a reserve water source if anything happens.

Water Filtration

With the outside kitchen build, we’ve decided that we’re going to put in a natural filtration system to reclaim the grey water from the outside sink and dishwasher. We’ll use that grey water for the herb garden area in the back yard. This will also give us some experience with natural filtration systems that we plan to apply later to larger scale projects.

Water Well

While we haven’t totally given up on a well, the $7,000 estimate from a local water well driller means that it has a ~12 year payback period – and that’s if it doesn’t cost anything to run the pumps. So for now, we’re focusing on other avenues for meeting water needs.

Catchment & Storage

We’re looking at three different options under the “catchment and storage” heading. They are, in no particular order

  • A “natural pool” pond system
  • Water storage tanks coupled with a rain and runoff catchment system
  • An aquaponic system

As I mentioned, these are longer-term projects. They each have their own benefits and drawbacks, and we haven’t yet figured out how we want to integrate them into our property. But that’s OK – we’re moving forward, and that’s the important thing.

Other Scenarios

We use the approach described above for assessing many of our “primary” systems. For example, when we first moved onto the property, we had some significant rehabbing to do on the old double-wide before we moved in. Parts were livable, but most of it wasn’t. So we lived in our pop-up camper for a month or so while we worked on the house. Longer term, we’re planning to build two or three B&B cabins around the property. While their primary purpose will be revenue from B&B activities, if anything should happen to our main home, we’ll have backup systems readily available.

 

Livin’ the 9.5

This year – Christmas 2016 – was the first year for us on our farnch (half farm, half ranch, hence “farnch”). Each of the kids has adjusted well to life at Livin’ the 10 – for the most part. They recognize that things are different out in the country, and we’re helping them to understand the value in self-reliance that you need when you’re out here.

farnch

both a farm and a ranch

Speaking of self-reliance, the value in self-reliance was driven home a few days before Christmas…when the water main running to our house sprung a leak out near the road. We (Melissa and the kids, mostly) dug through muck and mud for three days before we found the leak. It’s a lot of hard work being self-reliant. But the good news is that our kids have a newfound appreciation for plumbers. Iain’s even thinking about taking the odd plumbing job…as long as he gets to play in the mud a bit while on the job.

While we were digging, our first order of Livin’ the 10 ZubieWear T-Shirts and sweatshirts arrived. Oscar Zubiate has been a friend for a while, and he and the team at Zubie Wear did an excellent job on the apparel. As we were groaning and moaning through the muck and mire, we laughed to ourselves that while our overall experience on our property has been a 10, today might be a 9.5.

The roughly one-foot section that we replaced

It could have been much worse, though. It wasn’t a massive leak, so we were able to turn the water on for 15 minutes and run everyone through the shower, flush and refill the toilets, etc. Plus, we saw first-hand the benefits of some of our self-sufficiency-minded “preps.” First, we have a commercial ice maker (I love ice) which holds about 25# of ice. Even though it didn’t produce ice during these three days, we still had ice. Second, because we have many gallons of drinking water stored, we were able to cook and brew coffee and tea, etc. Thinking ahead and having a little extra on hand limited the second- and third-order effects, and turned this into an endurable experience.

 

 

Setting Up A Classroom

You may be debating the necessity of having a dedicated space for a classroom, and rightly so, with so many learning opportunities available either online, or through alternate locations such as museums, libraries, and COOPs. I see a classroom-less homeschool as a real possibility for us at some point in the future. But as my students are still quite young, learning through doing requires supplies, and supplies need a space. The manipulatives required for concrete learning of abstract concepts have to be available, and easily accessible for the kids, as well as simple for them to put back. We have made one of our bedrooms useful as such a place, with workspaces for the kids as well. And though they do enjoy curling up in the window seat when they read, they usually end up bringing their activities out to the living room floor or the dining room table. Here is how we have the classroom organized:

On the left, unpictured, is our Library shelving, then you can see one of the desks designated for art or writing activities. Behind that are the Montessori manipulatives, each shelf a different category; one for Sensorial learning, one for Mathematics, and several of the shorter ones at the top house the large map puzzles for Geography. The very top shelf holds media based learning, DVD courses and the like. Beneath the window seat reading nook, the lacing, snapping, zipping, and tying frames hang. In the closet on the right, there is a shelf for wooden puzzles (an extension of Math and logic), The large science manipulatives, natural world math manipulatives, puzzles, and the imagination station. There is another desk situated on the left wall, and between it and the closet is the writing shelf, with different types of paper, activity books, writing utensils, and grammar activities, including the grammar boxes, and metal insets. Here’s a better look at that desk

which is predominantly used for their art projects. Their art supplies are organized (well, as much as art supplies CAN be organized) in the green corner cabinet, pictured here. Because of it’s proximity, the desk is quite frequently covered in clay and paint. Next, these are what I used to deem circle time activities.

Calendar building, Pouring and tweezing activities, Nomenclature and three part card activities, and some construction activities. On the other side of the doorway is our Library section.

The kids are welcome to read any day for school, but on science days, they have to read science books, on history days, history books, and so on. So our books are organized by subject. Literature, Languages, Math, Art, Sciences, History, Theology, Easy Reading, and Magazines. On their reading days, they have the freedom to select any subject they choose.

Even as the kids outgrow their need for manipulative based learning, we will always have a library. This room will more than likely one day become a bedroom, but for now, it is a place for them to learn and read, build and explore, and grow.

Partnerships

It may not look appetizing, but our animals absolutely love spent grain.

Several years ago, we met Ricardo and Jennifer Garcia through a mutual interest in trading stocks and options. Over the years, that mutual interest has grown into a friendship. A common thread in our friendship is the desire to become more independent, self-sufficient, self-reliant, etc. So when Ricardo mentioned that he was following his dreams of opening a brewery, Melissa and I knew we wanted to be a part of that.

In addition to brewing the best beer I’ve ever tasted – bar none – our animals absolutely love the spent grains.

One of the win-win deals we were able to negotiate with Ricardo was being an early participant in the brewery in exchange for the spent grains from his brewing activities. In addition to brewing the best beer I’ve ever tasted – bar none – our animals absolutely love the spent grains. The chickens and guineas love to scratch and pick through it. The pigs chomp it down faster than you can get it to them. And to the donkeys, it’s ambrosia. On Ricardo’s side of the deal, he now has a sustainable outlet for what would otherwise be a waste product that he would have to pay to dispose of.

 

 

Blackberries!

One of our favorite summer activities, even as cityfolk, was taking a trip to a pick-your-own farm for fresh blackberries, strawberries, peaches, and other colorful and flavorful produce. We tried planting fruit trees in the yard, but the greenbelt in the neighborhood brought out the deer every night, and they’d strip the plants of any leaves and buds. We never got to reap the benefits of our poor besieged plants, and unfortunately, being in the city limits, we couldn’t shoot the deer. Pity, because then I could have had peaches, AND venison ?!

Now that we have some room to stretch our legs, we started planting some fruit trees. Among our first plantings was a bunch of blackberry vines along the fence. Nothing producing yet, as a matter of fact, they are quite dormant, as are most of our early plantings. We should have some great blackberry recipes coming this summer. And just let those deer try to get to them first…

Star Light, Star Bright

It’s amazing to me how beautiful the night sky is out here in the country. In the city, you just can’t see through all the street lights to truly see the majesty of creation flung across the sky. I’ve posted a lot of sunrise and sunset pictures in the past, partly because it’s not easy to capture the beautiful, starry nights we have out here in the country with my cell phone. Tonight, though, things were a little different. The sun had just set – you can still see some of the last remnants of sunset near the bottom of the picture – and it was still casting enough light into the sky for the phone to snap a decent picture of the not-yet-starry night.

 

 

God’s Canvas

We have the most beautiful sunrises and sunsets out here at Livin’ The 10 in New Berlin. Truth be told, it’s pretty much the same sunrise and sunset that you get in San Antonio…but there’s just something different about the view of God’s canvas from out in the country.

Above, the sunset bounces off the bottoms of puffy clouds. And although you can’t see it in the picture, it continued all the way to the eastern sky. Below, a fiery sunrise outlines the trees as the donkeys enjoy a morning stroll in the front paddock.

Above, a cloudless sunrise. Below, an eastern sunset reminiscent of a chalk painting in pastel shades.

Above, one of my favorite fiery sunrises, bursting on the horizon, tossing deep purples on the clouds. Below, one of my favorite “tequila” sunsets, as the setting sun casts warm oranges on the wispy clouds. Yes, they’re actually Agave plants, but “Agave sunset” just doesn’t have the same pizzazz.

Above, an incredible sunrise of deep reds and purples. Below, another sunrise of bright oranges and yellows.

 

A day in the life of a Homeschool family

Once you decide to homeschool, the first thing that you need to decide is what your day is going to look like. A schedule is important, but so is flexibility! Our educational adventure started a little over 8 years ago, and in that time, we’ve always tried to have some sort of schedule, but as life happens, we’ve adjusted our schedule to adapt to our lifestyle. My   schedule needs to change again, but as it stands right now, this is what it looks like:

Daily Schedule
7:00 Wake up! Care for animals
7:30 Chores
8:00 Breakfast
8:30 Gardening- Plant of the week
10:30 Check animals, Break
11:00 Lunch
11:30 Cleanup Lunch, Start Dinner
12:00 School activities
1:00 Architecture of the Farm
3:00 Check animals, Break
4:30 Food Project
6:00 Dinner
6:30 Cleanup dinner, showers
Dusk Secure animals, then free time
8:00 Reading and Bed

 

 

School Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday
Eryk Reading, Writing, Math Biology, Chemistry, Earth Science, Astronomy History, Games & Puzzles COOP Art, Signing, Spanish, Music
Iain Biology, Chemistry, Earth Science, Astronomy Art,   Signing, Spanish, Music Reading, Writing, Math COOP History, Games, & Puzzles
Macy Art,   Signing, Spanish, Music History, Games & Puzzles Biology, Chemistry, Earth Science, Astronomy COOP Reading, Writing, Math

There are two schedules there; first, our daily schedule, then, our school schedule. You’ll notice we do very little “school” work, and that is because during our gardening time, we are learning biology, botany, phytology, environmental sciences, meteorology, herpetology, entomology, and almost every other “ology” you can think of. During our food projects, we get chemistry, fractions, conversions, ratios… plus delicious food! People joke with my kids when they see them out that they have a break, but the truth of the matter is, we don’t take breaks, life is learning! The school rotation ensures that we cover all the bases, but it is truly a very small part of raising a child into a well rounded human.

What do I like about this schedule? Well, it gives us plenty of time to get into our projects, whether planting or brining, mucking out stalls or clipping flight feathers. It also offers a variety of different things to fill our days. What do I not like about it? Well, with my kids always wanting to use the same manipulatives during school time, I decided to try letting them alternate days so that they didn’t have to fight over the bead frame or the microscope.  But I think I’ve lost far more opportunities for them to learn cooperation and sharing, as well as the missed chances for them to teach each other, which I find highly valuable. So I will be working on transitioning them back to a simplified school schedule, where we will all be working in the same vein of study each day.  See? Flexibility, experiment, and learn!

So you may not have calves to bottle feed, or a need for a two hour block of time to repair fences. Fill your schedule with all the things that you need to get done, and involve your children in the process. Learn how to do something new, and teach them how to do it in the process. Next week I’ll give you a peek into our school lessons.

An Inventure

From the Summer of 1984 to the Summer of 1987, we lived on the campus of Bethel Seminary in Arden Hills, Minnesota while Dad completed his Masters. We knew we weren’t well off, but I didn’t realize until a while later that we lived those four years right at – or possibly right below – the poverty level for a family of four in the Twin Cities. But from my perspective, those years were some of the best years for our family. Looking back, I think one reason for the fondness of the memories is that not having a surplus of cash naturally led us to be creative and collaborative when doing things as a family.

One Christmas was a particularly inventive one – born out of, well, not much. An envelope tucked in the tree was the final present for my sister and me. In the envelope was a $1 bill…and a clue. I don’t remember what the clue was, but I do remember that it was a forced, cheesy rhyme – the kind you can’t not laugh at. The clue led to another envelope, this one with two $1 bills, and another clue. This continued for about four or five envelopes, for a grand total of $15 or $20 for each of us. “The Christmas Game” was an instant hit, and became a longed-for family tradition for many years to come. When our kids were old enough to read, we began that tradition with them. But this year, things were a little different.

For this years’ Christmas Game, Melissa and I decided to take full advantage of the six-and-a-half acres here at Livin’ the 10. We started off with an envelope in the Christmas Village on top of Grandma’s piano in our living room. From there, as you’ll see in the videos below, the kids traveled around the property “on an inventure,” as Iain put it. When they finally found the prizes in the popup – a Kindle Fire for each of them – they literally squealed and screamed. Later, after things settled down a bit, they each recounted how much they liked their new tablets – but they were emphatic that “the inventure” was what made it special.

inventure

an adventure that you invent for yourself,
your friends and/or your family

In fact, this year’s Christmas Game made such an impression on Iain that he spent over an hour putting together an inventure for Eryk and Macy. And as I sit here typing this, Iain told me that he and his siblings are going to put together a special inventure for me and Melissa tomorrow.

Enjoy the video…and here’s to your own inventure!